March 11, 2018
A story was told about a soldier who finally got back to the States after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.
“Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask, I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me.”
“Sure,” they replied, “We'd love to meet him.”
“There's something you should know,” the son continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mine and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."
“I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live.”
“No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us.”
“Son,” said the father, “you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own.”
At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was a suicide.
The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city quickly to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg.
The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who are inconvenient for us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are.
Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say a little prayer to give you the strength you need to accept people as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who are different from us. Our love for each other is just a reflection of God’s love for us. The readings of the 4th Sunday of Lent all speak of the unconditional love of God. Do I appreciate God’s love and do I extend God’s love to one another?
We read the Gospel message again: “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life” (Jn 3: 16).